Your marriage is as
important as your breath and it is good that you manage it to the best of your
ability. As a matter of facts it has been established that the people outside
marriage face more daily challenges than those in it. Yes, marriage has its own
unique and disturbing challenges but mark you, these can be dealt with. All you
need is to develop a little wisdom by analyzing the tips to spice-up your
marriage and you can learn how to handle the hick ups when they pop up.
Tips that can help you
spice-up your marriage include;
1. Learning your partners
weak and strong points
2. Embracing and hugs
3. Wise usage of words and
voice tone
4. Outings and date
5. Meaningful gifts
6. Dialogue
#1 how to know you
partner's weak and strong points
This is very simple and
can easily be achievable by using an extra sense of wisdom. The idea is, know
the extremes of his or her emotions. What level of emotional strain can your
partner withstand before acting stupidly? Also how much must you work to make
him or her happy? This sounds common but it can extremely help you to spice-up
your marriage life.
How to play with your
partner's emotions.
With great caution,
pretend that you are not happy with how your partner behaves or even with how
things are going on. The word is “great-caution” meaning that you've got to
ensure that what you are doing is safe with you partner. Make sure you use the
common words that will not leave any scar after the "drama." Remember
your objective is simple; just getting to understand a little of your partner
and nothing more.
Once you establish
things that irritate him or her most, always work hard to avoid them since
you've known what can bring trouble. Likewise if you get to clearly know what
your better half likes the most, don't withhold it. Be the person to make your
lover feel satisfied. Because if you don't want to do so, chances are, they may
look for someone to feel the need.
#2 Embracing and hugs
Psychologists have
established that harnessing, embracing and hugging of partners have extremely
great roles in binding couples together. You can use this to spice-up your
marriage. Let it be a habit, hug your partner as often as you can and even more,
do it in the presence of other people. This is a sign that you want peace and
regard friendliness, so your half will also not want to break your idea since
you involved the public.
#3 Words and voice tone
This is personal responsibility
and each partner ought to apply it. In fact I would recommend that you ensure
your partner understands this. Even if it means getting them read this particular
article. The ideas is, use words that will strengthen your marriage bonds and
not those that weaken it. These include; I’ll love you forever, you remain the
only choice for the rest of my life; take it from me that I love you... Etc.
Also, always ensure that
you keep a positive attitude towards your partner. The tone you that you talk
with to your partner suggests how much he or she is important to you. In fact
you can't hide your attitude since it'll come out through the tone you speak
with. Be vigilant and always use acceptable voice and tonal value.
#4 Outings and date
This applies to both
parties and not only the husband. Either of you can arrange for an outing or a
date. It doesn't need to be expensive, the key agenda for this is to spice up
your marriage and make it livelier. Simply go out, a place away from home and
reflect the dam days of courtship. Use the words you used before the actual marriage
vows and enjoy yourselves.
#5 Meaningful Gifts
Consider giving your
partner gifts that create unique and outstanding meanings, and that which adds
value to their life. This include taking your partner to newer experiences of
life like traveling abroad, buying them something that can be archived for many
years such as art works.
#6 Dialogue
This is the most
important of all; enlighten your spouse on the importance of communication.
Fabricate topics that will make your partner want to commend and give their
view. You can base this on this what you think can ignite his or her attention.
The importance of dialogue is that it strengthens the bonds of socialization.
After maturing in this you will be missing each other badly and you’ll always
want to hear the voice of each other.
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