The society is full of
different and difficult people and nobody can change that. We just have to
learn how to deal with irritating persons since some of them are our immediate
family members. For those of you who grew up beside brothers and sisters, there
is no doubt you came across irritating characters. And if you were not in such a set up, then
the elementary school you attended must have had such individuals.
The big problem is, when
dealing with an irritating person, we often assume that they know or should
know that what they are doing is against our ethics. The truth is they knew it
before behavior developed into maturity... But since they've grown into that it,
the irritant behavior has become part of life. Trying to change such a folk is
like a waste of time and almost next to impossible.
Now on knowing this, the
way out is learning how to deal with an irritating person and not to dwell in
give out complaints of what he or she is doing. Take that whoever keeps on
irritating and annoying you is someone you have to live with, does it mean then
that you'll run away? NO, the best way to deal is cope up with situation.
Just accept that there is
nothing you can do to correct that person, already the irritant behavior has
dominion so it you to adjust and move forward. So how can you really adjust so
as to deal with an irritating person?
This is how...
1. Ignore the criticism- learn not to expect anything good from an irritating
person. If he or she calls you names or groans to upset you, don't allow it to
settle into the heart. You have choice to either strive or keep a relaxed mind.
2. Control what you say- always
ensure that what comes out of your mouth is no provocative as this could
farther ignite the irritating person you are dealing with. Put it in you that
that this person is insecure and he or she can do anything to win the argument.
So any farther irritating tone from you can magnify a situation.
3. Be precise- when dealing with an irritating person, speak clearly what
you want but ensure it is in few words. This is someone who "must"
irritate so keep off by being precise if you must talk.
4. Give signs- behave in a manner like suggestion what he or she is saying
adds no value or is not really a big issue. Don't open loopholes for strive,
since you may not win the battle, show withdrawal signs each time you notice
things going extreme.
5. Don't Share - if you want to deal with an irritating person comfortably,
show what he or she is saying is not worth sharing. Because if you keep on
seeking sympathy from the people around, chance are that he or she will farther
take advantage over the pain.
In dealing with an
irritating person you ought to have a strong personality especially when it
comes to emotional control. Use the pre-think technique of controlling you
anger. It’s simple; since you expected embracement, preset your mind not to
magnify what comes against you… What other way do you think will help someone
to leave above annoyance? Please share or leave a comment!
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