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Friday, 31 January 2014

Fake Lose Fat Fast Products and how to Detect them

Fake lose fat fast

In today's world, everything has turned out to be commercially viable. Tricksters have advanced their game and are using the thriving technological inventions to fill their bank accounts. What they do is master the problems of society and device ways to make money from them by making fake-but-harmless lose fat fast pills. They've studied phycology and have known that people can do anything just to shed-off fat fast or within the shortest time possible.

I will not mention names, but I'll give tips on how to identify these fake lose fat fast products. But before craking the nut, lets see what makes us fall into the trap of buying these fake products.

Anxiety to lose fat fast
This is the most dangerous force that can make a person ignorant. The anxiety to obtain a slim bodied outlook. Realistically, its good to have your shape in place, but must you be uncontrollably anxious so to get there? It's good to take your time, at least do some research on the product you want to buy. What these fake lose fat fast dealers do is they quickly lure you with sweet promises to make you buy the product. Then when you've already given the money that's when they now give you other options such as; if it fails try this or that( now the real and working product).

They know what you want and therefore are able to use the right words just to get the coin from your pocket. It's a digitized world, and this should make you more vigilant when buying lose weight pills... Surely lets be realistic, how do you believe a product with no history to work on you! Okay, there's no denial that the anxiety to lost fat fast wants to kill you, but can you just get some approvals on shelved products. The newly introduced over-the-counter products you see around are really not something to run after, give them time to prove their worth.  

How to identify fake lose fat fast products

1. Use logic
Getting to depict the dubious products only becomes easy when you concentrate on facts and not what you want to be told. As mention, the manufactures of such knows exactly what you want to hear and so that's what they'll give to your ears. Thus, its important to seek for the reality and set aside anxiety. Ask yourself questions like; has the product worked for anybody you personally know, does it have any medical recommendations, does your doctor know of its existence?

2. Online evidence
One good thing with the internet is that it gives freedom, hence people can say anything about a particular product fearlessly. So, go for the reviews that pertain that product. Is it famous, is it recommended by famous lose weight sites? See, there are those websites which treasure trust so much that before they recommend any lose fat fast product, they must have unquestionable real life evidence. And in addition, you can also go to the conduct-administrator page and inquire through a call, and, off-course because they respect their reputation, it's likely you'll be assisted.

How Simplicity Makes marriage life Happier and Less Stressful

Simplicity adds happiness

Life is simply about choices and you can decide to have a happier marriage if you choose to. It's you who decides on the destiny of your relationship and not possessions, in-laws, education level, nor religion. -It's not about the mistakes you did while choosing the spouse you are with, NO! It's about choosing simplicity, self-motivation and being realistic. So how can you achieve that?

One thing I've discovered through research as well as the practical life is; humans tend to complicate things so as to believe life is okay. In a marriage set-up, you'll find unrealistic norms that couples strive to meet only to end up in stress.  For example; strictness in dressing, biasness in implementation of ideas, or even unrealistic routines and demands from the community. All these end up robing happiness in a marriage and multiply stress.

Prove me right or wrong here...!

The father is the head right? Okay, that doesn't mean he is immune to other house cores. The I-can't-do-it boundaries you see are mere set ups to make life harder and complicated. Surely, must you help your wife during sickness alone? She also would like to sit and enjoy your cooking. And by the way she's not a house help but a loverly companion to you.bsh, cook and even change diapers! simple. It's  just helping your own wife.

Don't complicate your relationship just because others are complicating theirs'. Set your mind to make things simpler for each other. Happiness in marriage is inventable, so seek for ways to ease the natural stress found in relationships by helping each other at all levels.

An old man once told me that I must take full responsibility over the destiny of my marriage life. And ever since, things work out better. I can't lie that everything is perfectly right but things are not the way they used to be, simplicity has given us a happier relationship. Previously, I was buried in complications of perfection. The best way to put it is, I was stark in perfectionism, just as is the case with most of you. It took practice and reminding myself all the time that am responsible for the amount of happiness in my marriage.

Simplicity in marriage means setting your mind to see things in the simplest dimensions possible despite their natural complexity. For example, when there is some sort of quarrel, it's important to have it in mind that, it's just an occurrence and will soon be over. Instead of shouting and calling each other names, maintain sobriety and seek for emotional control. Simplify the situation, even if it means keeping off the matter for sometimes. Don't allow it to give birth to stress, but focus on the future happiness of the marriage.

Find what your partner is complicating unknowingly and help them out by encouraging simplicity. Could be, he or she overthinks on problems and that's not healthy. Open up his/her mind by simply alerting them on the behavior. Or if you see a weakness, such as not being able to say sorry, simply define to them what sorry implies to their personality, marriage and their personal level of happiness.

Its natural, that a simple pronunciation of the word sorry brings back happiness in marriage. So, if you do anything against the expected, the simplicity behind solving the problem is to say sorry. Don't complicate things, because by doing so you'll just deepen the stress and make things miserable. Saying sorry doesn't make you're inferior, in fact it shows how responsible you are in marriage and can strengthen your marital bonds.

Tuesday, 28 January 2014

3 Ways to Minimalize the Marriage Issues that bring Stress

Simplicity in marriage

A question kept lingering in my mind about what really causes strives, madness and stress in marriages. This is after coming across loads and loads of problems from fellows who experience hardships in their marital life. I couldn't figure out how a couples at 50 and above years would fall into the traps of conflicts and strife. For some years it seemed impossible to me, but I've realized where problems hibernate.

Let's uncover and turn every stones and you'll see what causes stress in marriages.

Magnification of small issues
Back to school... In biology class there is an important tool called a magnifying glass. It's used to multiply the appearance size of things so that they appear lager than the actual size. For instance an object can be magnified x1.5, x2, x10, x50 and so on depending on the power of the glass. A Mosquito under magnifying glass can appear bigger than an elephant. And this is what happens to the marriage issues that bring stress. Couples should learn to minimalize issues that arise rather than making then appear larger.

This is how... You don't need to shout to your partner to make him or her understand their mistakes. Just relax and sort things out when emotions have subside. Also, if you don't like anything in you partner don't pay lots of attention to it, but instead take it as just a weakness. Understand that no mistake is unforgivable. Yes, the hurt could be painful but it will only cause stress in your marriage as much as you allow it, otherwise you can decide to cut it off.  

Expectation
This is another queer thing, unrealistic expectations. Wanting to have everything perfect. This attitude can have a very stenchy impact in a relationship. It suggests to couples that things must workout exactly as thy want and plan. And when they don't, stress is automatically born in the marriage and it could even lead to divorce.

Realistically, nothing must workout exactly as our way of thinking. It is important to allow things happen how they should and must. For instance if your partner has fertility issues, don't stress and pressure them because they can't give you the child you want. Just be realistic, and consider options like praying to God, seeing a doctor for further check-ups, or even adoption. In fact by just adopting a child you can restore happiness in you marriage life.

Worry
What will happen, how will he or she look after ten years, will I still be lovable in 20 years? Will we manage to pay our bills, will we get children, worry, worry and worry. All these worries are brought by fear of the future. But to be realistic, nothing uncommon will happen, and if any, what must happen must happen. Pilling up stress will not change anything, just concentrate with the reality that marriage gives you and seek happiness in it.

By looking into the past, you'll realize that what worried you last week or even last month is no longer a bother today. Things happened how they did, and it's important to pick lessons from past experiences so as to plan for the future. Instead of allowing stress to control your future or marriage, just plan and do whatever is within your ability to influence the result you opt to get in future.happy marriage

Thursday, 23 January 2014

Married to my Neighbour, How we Lead a Stress free Mindfulness Life

Mindfulness in marriage

This is an advise I picked from a very rich couple who discovered the magic of mindfulness that rescued their relationship. Both the husband and the wife are privileged to work in high caliber jobs but have managed to effectively deal with marriage life stress. It's not because they are well educated, in fact their relationship begun with the worst of stress and it nearly broke-up. What kept them together was children and this went on until they discovered how to make each other as just a neighbour.

The lady got pregnant while at college and this led to dropping-out of school. She had to nurse the pregnancy and thereafter take care of whatever will be born. It was not easy, as unwelcomed responsibility knocked earnestly and she had to give in to the pressure of getting into the family way: which is marriage life.

Things like baby clothes, attending clinics, washing poop and the likes never crossed into her mind. This brought stress, worry and all sorts of doubts into their relationship. The mother saw a great mistake instead of baby not to mention who the husband appeared to her, or for celerity,: dream killer. Their marriage life started with confusion and hurt breaks.

After several years the lady resolved into a journey of mindfulness, searching for joy and contentment in the same marriage. Healing time begun, and so they did some brainstorming towards correcting their life. They discovered that dropping out of school was the key source for stress and misunderstandings. Education was her priority and so they to quench that lifetime thirst.

It was a time of sacrifices and the husband had to nurse the baby while she went back to school. This was the only way to wipeout their marriage life stress. After that, they had to overcome the hatred between them by assuming to be like neighbors. In fact this idea of neighborhood and mindfulness in marriage has really helped me.

It simply encourages you and your partner to relate as neighbors. It discourages all platforms of despising your partner and demands natural respect. Let's crack into the idea, in the real life, you are obliged to respect your neighbors privacy and the natural boundaries that exist. Which also should be the case in marriage life, you don't have to dig into details to track your partner's moves and actions. No. NO, that not mindfulness.

He or she also has a private life! Don't control everything in the marriage life or you'll stir-up hatred. Assume he or she is your next door neighbor and always stir-up positive and respectful dialogue. Learn to discover how your partner plans things. Try his or her techniques and allow room to be taught. Show regard for the relationship by giving space and room when your partner requests ample time. Marriage life shouldn't be like a prison of sadness but an avenue of responsive freedom. Cheers as you practice the art of mindfulness!

Wednesday, 22 January 2014

Quick Way to Hark your Partner's Mind: Marriage life made simple- "No to stress"

Stress-free marriage life

You wonder what he or she could be thinking regarding the relationship, could there be someone else in that mind. Am I playing my cards perfect, will the marriage survive or will you be hurt again. I'll share some wise tips to capture your partner's mind-set and make them respect the relationship.

Let's first be realistic to life...
Nature made life to be hard so that we can come up with solutions. Marriage life is challenging at all levels and it's your responsibility to simplify it and make it enjoyable. However this becomes extremely hard when we don't understand the principle of life. Which is quite clear and self explanatory: problems come to be solved and the more you solve them the more wiser you become!

So instead of worrying and stressing around, think on how to solve the issues under your nose. Stress is nothing but nothing, it'll not solve any marriage life challenge, you need to get answers. Make things work out don't wait! Seek ways to improve your relationship even if it means to hark you partners mind. 

So how can you hark your marriage life and have full control over it? ...Simple, go into your partners mind and pick the most probable frequent of thoughts. This doesn't mean you become manipulative, but smart. In fact, be wise like a serpent but gentle like a dove. Understand the HEART AND MIND of your partner, and identify the direction of your marriage life.

This is how... To know your partner more, master his/her words. Which words are common and what comes from their mouth. The good book says, from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Now ask yourself, what's your influence on what your partner speaks at most times. Is your marriage life full of complaining, stress and strife? Do have a direct hand in all that?

How can you purposefully create joy by making his or her way of thinking less stressful and positive instead of complaining? For instance, if your partner likes to complicate simple issues, how can help out in a wise way. Can you help them see a problem in its actual size, rather than its magnified size? Can you help them minimalize shouts and complaints? Can you hark into his or her mind and make them realistic? Such questions, when worked-upon, will guarantee you a stress free marriage life. 

Tuesday, 21 January 2014

Marriage life Simplified - Operation: Wipeout stress

Marriage made simple

Taking marriage life with the simplicity it deserves can help you significantly reduce stress and increase happiness in your relationship. It's just about knowing what you must know and how to use the right button. it's not about lot's of money, parties, or endless lists of friends, No it's about the mind, priorities, and being realistic to each other.

Stop complicating your marriage life... Do you know why?
Research shows, many people have a tendency of complicating things and this has also dictated the destiny of relationships. Complicated relationships end up breaking without  substantial grounds, while those which survive become hell.

You'll find mostly what brings stresses are simple "errors" or call them mistakes which are common. The negative experiences you see in your own marriage life are nothing new, they're just repetition of what other marriages went thro'. Lack of finances, lack of off-springs, incompatibility, bad in-laws and so on... They've happened and will continue to happen in your marriage and other people's as well. So, you don't have to keep worrying

You feel your partner is not what you thought he/she should be, you're not the first! So why captivate that feeling? Simply accept the fact that you both are humans. And humans were born to do mistakes! Or do you want to leave with an angle? Off-cause you'll not really enjoy, since the angel will be tired of your incompleteness and mistakes. Marriage life is about accepting, and simplifying things for each other.

In a comparative research, a cow under zero grazing showed great interest to eat the grass outside the fence. Despite the richness, greenness and how appealing the grass inside the court was, the cow was desperate to eat outside the fence. This is the same with marriage life, we often think someone else is more satisfied than we are. Which is not true.

Yawning for what is outside makes things complicated, it makes you not to see the goodness of your partner. While in reality he/she is the best for you. May be the person you think could have made you happier is just like the outside grass. You forget to explore the value in your partner because of misplaced focus. ADISE: work on your mind, simplify your relationship, loosen your demands and only expect the reality.
 
In fact the best way to show love is embracing your partner's weaknesses. Simply know that they can do any mistake, including the unspeakable sin. Yes, it is painful but I have to tell the truth. So since you can't change that, it's wiser to always maintain a good relationship to avoid leading the partner into temptations. Marriage life is ment for carrying each other's burdens. Its your responsibility to make him or her frequently think of you, by being unconditionally friendly. 

Monday, 20 January 2014

Who's Responsible in Reducing Marriage life stress

Stress in marriage

Research shows that ladies are the most vulnerable to suffer stress in a humiliating marriage life. They are emotional beings and this makes them overwhelmed when things go astray. Yes, the research has may proves and can be termed perfect bearing the fact that ladies play the biggest role in any relationship. However, who brings such stresses in the relationship and how can you reduce the occurrences?

It's wise to understand the origin analyze whether the sources can be shuttered, controlled or tamed. So who brings the disturbing issues between you and your partner?

1. Could be you
Ooh my, just pressed the wrong button by mentioning you, and you want to switch off from reading down? ...The wise say, look at the coin both sides before acting. Yes, don't mind we'll analyze the other side. So how could this be? Eeeeeh humans have a nature and it's impossible to control or even change that. 

For instance, men like to be kings. They've a habit of wanting to be adored and this is natural. Okay there are those few who are different and there is no need wanting your man to be them. The real problem comes when you want to convert him into what you think is good. So, when he fails to conform, the standard you set remains in the mind and developes into stress. You begin thinking he is a mistake in the relationship.

You keep on hoping that the day he will understand what you want in that marriage life, the stress will be wiped out. Over-expecting; this is what kills marriages and you don't want yours to die. The plain fact is, you can leave with your partner exactly how he is and be happy. Set the standards but don't let them control the level of happiness in your marriage.

2. Finances
It's known that some marriages end up breaking because of financial constrains. Now you are in that marriage life, full of stress because of sufficiency. SIMPLE, the stress is self-made. It's who've invited it, you don't live because of sufficiency, and you shouldn't allow it to dominate your marriage. Stress is an intruder who's been given the lions share. So why allow it to rule while you can jot it out!

3. Children
I was observing the lifestyle of a longterm friend, they have a kid and now instead of enjoying the their marriage life and the gift. They've often gotten into strains and stress because of the kid. They both love the kid that they cant punish it. They're are both stuck into seeing the kid misbehave. Literally, this is a matter of choice, you decide to punish the kid and avoid future stress or assume and send a scandalous invitation of gross misconduct. 

See, I can go on and on but the plain truth is, most of stress in marriage are human-made. Just look around and figure out your contribution. How much have you contributed to the existence of that stress. Do you think towards making things simple or complicated? Are you a solutions or the problem?

Friday, 17 January 2014

Top 2 Quickest Ways of Eradicating Stress in Marriage Life

Marriage life stress

You wonder what the hell you're doing in that marriage, things are not what you opted for. He or she doesn't care about joy, peace nor emotional health in the relationship. You think it's a compatibility issue since you don't fit into one another...The dreams of a happy family have started to sink into hell... Don't worry, Here are 2 guaranteed ways to quickly eradicate stress from you marriage life.

Its the brutal truth that only a few wise people know, I am not charging to let you know so don't despair. Grab your share... Okay!

#1. Behave like a snake
Huh? A snake? Yes, don't think it's typing error, that's exactly am saying, and still in the same topic of eradicating stress in marriage life. How...? So let's crack into the behavior of a serpent. See, snake is the wisest animal on eath. When it enters into a new zone, it fast takes some time to understand what's going on in the surrounding. In fact, you can stay with it inside you house and fail to notice its presence.

It tries so much to blend with colors around even thought it doesn't change color like a chameleon. The challenge of having less capability to change color like a chameleon is not an issue to "doctor" snake, is simply looks around to find the color that is just closer to its skin for camaflour. It takes time to discover its self, its color and environment. Have you taken time to sturdy the stress in the marriage life you are in?

In the mind of a snake, it very well knows that it's a serpent but does not show off. One thing that brings stress in marriage life is pride. In fact, its the biggest enemy of all marriage on eath. Pride, pride, pride. It makes makes partners disregard each others emotional well being. It makes you feel important and that your partner should do everything to value that. You can't be contented if pride is what dominates the relationship.

Advise... Know your worth, but lay low like a snake. Could be you got into marriage life without taking time to study your partner and this is what brings the stress because there is no compatibility. Compatibility issues doesn't need to translate into divorce, first try modification! Which means, taking time to learn how you can survive and convert that marriage into a happy communion. IN SIMPLE TERMS: STUDY YOUR PARTNER!

#2. Know when to act  
Most strifes that emerge in marriage life is because of poor timing. There is always the time to do things. For instance, if you want something executed in the family, know when it is right to demand. You can't just marry and want everything to workout smooth immediately, there is growth time and you must accept that.

These growth time  include things like; developing trust, knowing each others past, setting goals, testing one another and so on... You cannot just bump into each other and begin to demand for children or unconditional love, or unquestioned trust. No. No, no, marriage life is simply a school, you learn as you move on. So if you quite, you've quite school. You think am too hard on you? Not really.

Every marriage life has challenges. Nobody is immune to this, but you can eradicated stress with these above mentioned tips. I have used them and they work. I've also shared with some couples, especially those at the brink of separation and almost all of them resulted to keep  cool in the same marriage. Yes, you can do it without stress!

Wednesday, 15 January 2014

How she Dragged me into Marriage Life

Marriage life

I hope this true story will help you stay in that marriage you're currently in... I was in church offering my service as usual, then my eyes fell on this beautiful girl. She was always there, but that day was different. I saw something that never crossed my eyes, something exceedingly beautiful! She had everything that marriage life would require.

That look deposited the seed of love right into my heart, and I began battling with the mind to make it concentrate on the pastor but couldn't. She was allover my subconscious, so I decided to start a talk after the service. Marriage life excitement rose within me as the pastor closed with a word of prayer.

But before I could reach to her, a friend came over and fixed me with some dialogue. I believed she must be from around and she'll just reappear somewhere within the week or even the Sunday that followed, so the dialogue went on. But I was wrong, she vanished! Never returned to church. From the beginning of that year my mind was filled with questions about marriage life. And on seeing how she used to carry herself I knew she could make a wife.

Another Sunday passed and and now months begun to roll. She was nowhere around. I tried to ask my fellow male friends if anybody knew about her, but none was aware. She wasn't outgoing as such and loved to keep her beauty to herself which made her unpopular to the men society. My be this is what kept her from early marriage life.... I can't really tell?

My search for the type of girl I opted to explore marriage life with begun. I went out every evening, walked while darting my eyes on every girl with close resemblance but hopelessly returned sad. She was no where. I was living with a young brother in Christ, whom I tried to describe to him about the girl's appearance to help in the search. Marriage life illusions grew bigger and nearly killed me.

There was a TV Soap Opra programmed for viewing from Mondays to Thursdays, It was called storm-over-paradise. It touched about marriage life, which blew my mind since the starrings' character was more like "my" lost girl. It really got me engaged, especially how the actors had to fight just to be together. Life was cruel.

Three months down the line, my love for the lost girl escalated, I couldn't switch her off my mind. I realized that I have to look for her. Nights lengthened, and the sunlight become useless, since it couldn't point to where my girl was, the world became totally dark. Marriage life illusions chocked me and I become stupid for it.

Where our marriage life begun...
As the year ended, so did the burning love start to weaken, the hope to find her varnished slowly. One night I had a meeting with myself and agreed that life has to move forward, a voice from within convinced me to go to church for a new Year's cross-over celebration. So I fetched for supper and we ate with my small brother in Christ.

23:00 hours clocked, we shut the door behind us, and set-off towards church. Then as we got closer, surprise! There she was, having alighted from a public service vehicle. I couldn't take it in, I felt electrified, the love resurrected and my breath chocked. Ooh my! I owned her even thou she never knew. It was beyond the cat and cat dating game, "this is my wife and I'll keep her for marriage life" I whispered to myself... More to come...
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2 most basic LOVE lessons before marriage life

(1). Know the type of girl you want to spend life with. Consider everything and strike a balance between her positive and negative habits. She must not be perfect, but as a human know that ups and down are ahead but it the intensity of the love before marriage that will keep you. Take for example, the force you apply to throw a stone is what will determine the far it will go.

(2).Don't lose hope but focus on the positivity of life. Respect the odds and weigh them and see if they are enough to keep you off from marriage life, don't force but wait and be realistic. Evaluate to see if the partner you're courting will still be lovable during hard times. Yes, marriage is choice and it's good you choose with you heart, mind and soul. Don't rely on the mind alone because if you love with the mind you can't wait for the right time(wedding time).

My marriage life is currently quite good, and I am not bragging. Yes, there are rocky times and I'll share some, together with how things work out. One thing I discovered is that marriage is generally challenging and nobody is an expert enough to tame it. You'll see couples in their 50th and 60th anniversary quarreling but they still live together. You also can live happily, it's a matter of choice... If you wish, subscribe to get realtime updates on how you can better life and make it simpler in all areas!

Tuesday, 14 January 2014

Post title Optimization: What Expert Bloggers never told you

Post optimization

Let's be direct to the point, you blog for two main reasons, wich are; offering quality information and getting readers. It's a hard thing to blog and lack audience, some people say passion is the most essential element that keeps a writer. That's true for a start, but when your site gets older, you start questioning if the daily recorded traffic is worth the efforts and time. But before it gets to that, blog title optimization is something you must work on to keep afloat in this competitive internet world.

2 Main functions of a post title, don't dare publish on blog without these in mind!

1. Post Visibility
Ask yourself a simple question, is the article capable to attract the "eyes" of search engines?. And if not, how do you expect it to be found by readers. See, for something to be visible in the real world it must be attractive. Competition is high and you must raise the burner of your message higher to increase the chances of being picked by the search engines. Am talking about optimization of post title! Is the title searchable enough?

Way forward... Simple: include the keywords in the title. For example; the headline for this post you are reading begins, "post title optimization." These are the keywords, meaning the search engine will provide this and many other great contents on this subject when someone requests. Also, it's wise to let those keywords come among the five first words of the headline.

2. Attention
Now after successfully seducing the search engines eyes' and can be sure of being found, now add some magic to your headline, make it attention grabbing. Create curiosity to make the reader want to peal off the appealing fruit, ...something like; what expert bloggers never told you, or lose weight or die! Huh? You have to convince a reader to pick and click thro your post. Otherwise you can have all the blog and title optimization tactics applied yet get less readers.

Optimizing the blog, its template and the title is as important as having catchy titles for your post. This is what many expert bloggers will never tell. They'll only encourage you to do the obvious which is good, but almost everybody is doing the obvious and you must standout from them!

What I've learned in my years of blogging... The experts you see outshine everyone else have something to offer and they do it in a smart way. Previously when I was a newbie, I did posts without any concern of title optimization which made me wonder about the limited traffic my blogs got. This is now my secret; visibility and attention are keys to successful blogging!

Friday, 10 January 2014

Building Confidence while Coping with Financial Stress

Financial confidence vs. Stress

It has been discovered, great percentage of people lose confidence while in financial crisis. This comes as a result of a misconception about money in relation to personal growth. It's a mindset issue, where they allow their lack of finances to define them, and this has caused havoc to today's societies. 

Lack of money is common and shouldn't rip-off your confidence, you just have to adjust to the fact, and maintain your confidence if you're to remain productive. Yes, advice from professionals on the topic of coping with financial stress  is allover, but the brutal truth is, it's very hard to overcome anything with low confidence. No short-cut, accept that the crisis you're in, is a passing cloud. This is simple logic!

so what simple ways can help you build confidence while coping with financial stress?

1. Ignore the disire that claime to be a need
Yes, do that! ...Or what change can you make by stressing around? You've already planned, strategized, borrowed loans just to stay confident financially, but still you feel incomplete without fulfilling that desire... The desire could be; an expensive house, a high-class computer, posh car... etc. But  let's be realistic, aren't you still alive even without those things? -Simple, ignore what is ignorable, don't let a simple "want" still your confidence. The tip can help you to avoid the prosses of coping with financial stress as you'll have avoided stress in the first place.

2. "Shop wisely"
Off-cause you've heard this numerous times... the question is, have it changed your life or do you steel have to struggle coping with financial stress? Simple and clear, shop wisely and you'll gain your financial confidence. Set up a budget plan and simply stick to it. Don't confuse your mind, you don't have to buy everything in the world. Life is that simple, or do you want me to stretch out this paragraph trying to lie to you? That I won't, ha ha ha...

3. Look back
Life is about experience, how many times have you hard a strong desire to buy something but didn't due to financial limitations? I bet many, and the truth is, still you managed to do without them. So, what makes you not able to cope with simple financial stresses that will only pass away soon. The best way to come out of a loan is to pay it and avoid further unnecessary borrowing. Learn from experience buddy.

4. Wise Borrowing
Let's open up and handle the brutal truth here...! You're struggling with bad credit score, do you ask why? Or did you have to borrow that loan in the first place? They are painful questions to ask when you have to cope with a financial stress, right? But where is your confidence, deal with the problem from the roots.   This will deter you from repeating the mistake.

Confidence is essential in your personal growth, but if you fail to cope with financial stress wisely, then it becomes the first thing to be ripped off. Hence, ensure nothing takes away your confidence as it's the only force that will make you see things clearly. Having financial problems should not deter your positive thinking ability, in fact it should sharpen your mind to make it solve issues with simplicity. Lack, is just the opposite of plenty and things will turn around soon. 

Thursday, 9 January 2014

Coping with January's Financial Stress

Financial stress

January as the first month of the year brings with it lots of financial stress especially considering the fact that December(the month of overspending) was just yesterday. It's a month of new beginnings, that is; children enroll into pre-schools, others climb into their next subsequent classes, there are those who're joining high schools, colleges and universities. All these areas of development demand for money, and that's why some real tips to cope with financial stress is necessary.

There is no way anybody can completely shut out financial stress in this season, the only best way is to cope with it on a healthy angle. The first most useful tactic to cope with such a burden is setting your mind to achieve the right thing in the simplest way possible. You just need to accept that you have a goal and that you must achieve.

The second applicable way to cope with January's financial stress is strategizing. Do it in a simple way; how much do you have at the moment? Now after knowing the cash you can immediately afford, go for the most important need and deal with it. Never try to solve all money needs at once in this month of January because you can easily attract stress.

It's all about simple management! Let's say your January salary is set to be released at the end of the month, does it mean your plans will have to wait? Off-course if a need can't wait, you'll have to cope with it or else financial stress will destroy your health. Again I say simple; look for a reasonable loan with low interest and sort the urgent need! Spread your repay period and avoid mental strive.

The faster you deal and cope with any financial stress in the month of January the easier it will be for you to come back to track in the subsequent months. Check out that you don't complicate your financial status, let what can wait, wait, and deal with the urgent issues. Nobody is controlling your mind, it is in your power so, use it in a health way.

Yes, the situation could be pressing, but that doesn't mean you should strain beyond logic. Financial stress is something you can cope up with. In fact, just rewind with your mind how many time you've gone through insufficiency and lack of money? Quite many, huh? Did you die? Off-cause not! In general, take things simple as they should be. You don't have cash for now; but as time goes by you'll get, period. So use the most relevant solutions, one that will not cost you beyond measure and move on with life happily!

Big time, 

Monday, 6 January 2014

Unquenchable Desires vs. Personal Growth

Unquenchable desires

A short simple story... A friend of mine once told me something that enlightened my mind and it gave me rest in life in reference to all that I own. He said, " When I felt the desire to marry, I went to great extends wanting to get the best and most beautiful girl my eyes could see. Luckily I found one, stayed with her and now I am worried!" The statement gave me some food for thought about personal growth. 

Yes, I won't hide about knowing his wife... True, she is beautiful and can make any lose-man salivate. Thank God the topic of personal growth was within me and I wouldn't be tempted. Do you know why this young man was forever worried? I'll tell it out right here: the beauty of the wife! Other men showed great interest in her, the rich, the perfectly-masculine-guys, the highly educated and even the poorest of men.

When walking with his wife he has to bear with the pain of another man salivating after her. Oh my... He is now full of regrets for having picked a beautiful wife. In fact he confesses it out that, “better an ugly wife because you don't have to fight away the vultures”. Okay, it is the challenge that makes him think that way... But what if he had picked an ugly wife in the fast place? You know what, the story could be..., “it’s better to marry a beautiful and satisfying wife” the personal growth lesson that you need to pick here is that humans are never satisfied.   

So, how many times have you ever desired to have something opting it will quenched the lust in your heart? Off-cause many...  however, to make your life simpler and with less stress, don't ever expect 100percent fulfillment in anything. If you buy a classic vehicle today, know that it'll only make you feel good for sometimes before higher version of it rolls-out. Set your mind to personal growth by controlling your mind desires. Don’t let them lead you, be realistic in every action and only execute it out of purpose.

In the real sense, you are okay with what you have; you don't need a shorter or taller husband to feel married! It's just an unquenchable desire, and you don’t have to embrace it. However you can decide to wipe away the stresses that accompany such desires. It's a personal growth thing, it's about you and how you cope with a desire. Don’t die wishing for horses to ride on… live a realistic life.

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Saturday, 4 January 2014

100percent reliable Personal Growth Tips

Personal growth

Oh my… I was just looking at the Google insights page to see what people were searching in this New Year. And can you guess what I found? “New year motivational quotes” which recorded +2000 searches in just a particular location of choice. It made me realize how essential it is to begin a year with new gear. See, personal growth is self a thing, in fact it must come from within your heart.

Off-course a new year is not something to be exited that much but it should be. That’s according to me, know why? It's  new period and you can use it to start a fresh! The previous year might have let you down and you feel things might not change for the better, but that’s a feeling… a feeling has got nothing to do with your fresh resolutions. Remember, that good book that says, where there is no vision people perish. Take this as a personal growth fact.

Now, a resolution is just a vision or a set of goals which you put before to achieve. This could be a change of character/behavior, developing new habits, changing a job, deciding to be self-employed and so on… one thing that make many people fail in this “new-year-resolution-thing” is over thinking. Being over ambitious only slows your personal growth, and the fact is you’ll get tired within no time.

So what’s the safe way of doing the “setting goals” things?

Simple: take the resolutions as personal growth facts. Only set reasonable resolutions, those that fit within your budget, location, age and etc. Because why should you set targets that you very well know you can’t meet. Let’s take an example; you are in your fourth year at the university… do you think it’ll be fine to plan having a kid at this point? See, personal growth facts is all about making better and realistic choices. 

Doing the things that will improve tomorrow’s living standards. Whether it is efficiency at the work place, improving your current appearance, speech improvement, or grades. May be you’ve already set new resolutions and backed them with some motivational quotes…, that’s fine but you can as well decide to go thru them and see if they fit within personal growth facts. If you find them real and achievable then… lucky you!

…But if not consider being real to yourself and at least focus on growing the real you together with the resolutions you’ve set to achieve. They don’t have to be strict to stress you up, concentrate on the simple and achievable things… okay? This is personal growth; it’s not about high valued goals that pleases everybody… they should be personal and meant for yourself development. Good luck buddy! and happy endeavors in your new year.

The Stress of a Prideful In-law

In-law stress

Naturally an in-law is meant to be someone who is friendly, reliable, trustworthy, care-giving and welcoming. This is a reality to some families but not all. And if you're in the circle of the lucky few, then you should not miss heaven because you are living in a supported world. But if not, you are not dead and can still cope with a stressing, prideful in-law.

So what actions make you think your in-law is prideful? These are some of the sampled reasons and their immediate answers...

1. Bad looks
This is the most commonly reported issue when couples to in-law stories are analyzed. Most people in marriage complain that the mother, father, brother or sister to the partner is offering bad looks to them. Solution: don't concentrate, be wise not to worsen the gap and keep your heart and feelings safe by believing in yourself. Why should you bother by just a look? 

2. Luck of recognition
Whether in family gatherings or even personal conducts, a prideful in-law may find it hard to recognize you; this is common to many people. So, you don't have to worry, in fact avoid expecting to be recognized since the lack of it will not break any of your bones. Adopt a self-satisfied personality, mind your business, and off-cause do it with wisdom.

3. Sarcasm
Prideful in-laws like to be sarcastic; I can say it's a problem they can't help except with divine intervention. So expect this and play wise. Stop wasting your energy stressing yourself, you are not married to your in-law, only do what is within your rich to maintain a good relationship but don't stress beyond that. You can't please everybody, if your husband or wife is happy then move forward with life.

4. Name calling
This was there from since time in memorial, you didn't open the chapter neither will be last to suffer name calling. However you can decide not to pay attention. It is also not a wise idea to revenge, because once you revenge the prideful in-laws will have a better point to attack you. Nothing they call you will stick on your face so move on... That's not a reason enough to just give away your love.
 
5. Unreasonable harshness
Hay...! I was about to forget this point but that would have made the article incomplete... Don't find reasons as to why your in-laws are so furious and harsh to you. As early said this is common to many families, only know how to cope with their pride. The simplest explanations is, they are prideful and hence can stress you. Don't allow the sickness of stress to creep into your marriage due to harshness from in-laws, avoid their stings by concentrating with the wellbeing of your marriage.

Friday, 3 January 2014

Prideful friends: Smart and Easy ways to cope with them

Uncontrollable pride

Friends are good and in fact there is a saying that highlights friends as assets. Yes, they are our valuables just as owning a house, phone or even your clothes. A friendless life can be quite tough and can lead to loneliness and stress. This leaves us with no other better option than having them in our lives. However, the same people that we refer to as our buddies can be quite burdensome especially when they posses uncontrollable pride in their set of behaviors.  

Pride is the number one friendship killer and you should try to control it, if you are the problem. But, I hope you are not the problem here. With the tips that am sharing, you'll be able to keep even the most pride-stricken friends as long as you are getting some value in that relationship. As I told you, buddies are assets. Hence, you don't want to lose important assets just because they are not well behaved.

So what smart ways can help you cope with prideful friends?

1. Know they are sick but don't be the doctor
Pride is more than a disease, it is an extreme illness of the heart and mind and the problem is, those overtaken by it never accept any treatment. They think they are more well and stable than everybody around. So don't be the doctor because you may end up more frustrated.

The best way to cope with a prideful friend is to avoid any form of strife and competition. You don't have to break your "profitable" relationship because of winning a mare argument. Let then win the debate as long as you know what's right. Don't allow your behavior to be infected by their pride but instead focus on what really matters.

2. Know what really matters
You might be sharing a common interest in life, let's say a business or family link. Now here is the question, will you break the co-relation because the friend is full of pride and that the behavior nags you? Off-course not, consider the benefits! Know what really matters and assume the rest. If you cannot avoid such a character, then assume him diplomatically. Don't let his stinky words dominate your feelings; decide to stick to the reason for your friendship.

3. Wise Un-friending
If you really care and off-course you should, be realistic and analyze the possible benefits of that communion. Off-course not every friendship can be substantial; there are those few prideful friends that you can chop-off from your list. But do this with lots of soberness; don't create a bad gap with a friend because of emotions. Yes, they'll upset you but that doesn't mean blocking them is the immediate choice. Just overlook the ill behavior and consider tomorrow’s benefits.

2014 7-Simple Business Ideas: Must you be Jobless again?

Refreshed 2014 business ideas

It's another year and you don't really need to be jobless in 2014. Yes, you were without work in the previous year not because a curse was placed on you, but it is because you were looking for employment. ... Oh my... I feel like giving you 2 in the back and then tell you sorry! …Who said you must be employed?

Am not against employment but... Surely… must you look a job for a whole 12 months or 3 years then begin to cry that there is no employment? Came on buddy! Have you tried any business? You can decide to create employment. There is no law that forbids self-employment. For me is think remaining jobless in 2014 will be a personal idea.

Based on the many business ideas all over the internet and especially those shared in this website under the job creation button, i think no one should really cry loud enough about employment crisis. Okay, I am not priding but let’s be realistic here, have you tried;

1. A Tissue selling business?

Requirements and capital
-How basic: it has high demand, almost a basic need in each household
-Where to buy: cheap tissue vendors or wholesalers
-Capital needed: less than 5000/-
-Venue: anywhere as long as it is a discoverable place
-Security not very demanding
-Operating cost: very low, only rent and tax of 40/=(stop joblessness in 2014) 

2. Candle selling business?

Requirements and capital
-How basic: not basic but necessary in each house hold
-you can buy from wholesalers and supply
-capital: 490 for one box of
>which will give you gross profit of 660
>and net profit of 170/-per box
-venue: you can begin supplying from your our house
-securing not very demanding
-operating cost: reasonable, around 5000/- for 10 boxes
     >Which will give you gross profit of 6600/-
     >And net profit of 1600/- (don't remain jobless in 2014!)

3. Quail selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: it is becoming very essential
-Capital: Low -each bird costs less than 500/-
                    -needs very small space to keep
                    - Good returns
-security: not very demanding
-skills: basic and natural skills are enough
-expected profit: @ eggs is ksh35/-

4. Mutumba selling business? (Second hand clothes)
Requirements and capital
-How basic: basic people must wear outfits
-Capital: Low, ksh2000/- is enough
-Venue: Anywhere including open space with human traffic
-Security: not very demanding
-Manpower: not tiresome one person can ran it
-You only need an easy found location stop joblessness in 2014

5. CD selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: important in entertainment
-Capital required: 5000/- has a good stock
-Venues: High traffic zone,
             -does well in kiosk due to cost of rent
-Skill: basic know-how just for running a small business

6. Chips selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: Not very basic but has high demand
-Capital required: approx khs30, 000/-
-Must have: health permit, and legal operating documents
-Venue: High traffic area,
-Manpower: involving but has good returns: stop joblessness in 2014

7. Ironing and dhobi business?
Requirements and capital
-Demand: Not basic but necessary
-Capital required: approximately ksh16000
                       -ksh1500 ($15) for iron box
                       -khs1000 ($10) rent for kiosk
                       -ksh40 ($3.8) tax revenue
                       -3000 ($30) for misc
-Venue: any reachable place, as long as you advertise
-Manpower: One person is enough don't remain jobless in 2014
-Yield best when there is not electricity and during holidays  It's another year and you don't really need to be jobless in 2014. Yes, you were without work in the previous year not because a curse was placed on you, but it is because you were looking for employment. ... Oh my... I feel like giving you 2 in the back and then tell you sorry! …Who said you must be employed?

Am not against employment but... Surely… must you look a job for a whole 12 months or 3 years then begin to cry that there is no employment? Came on buddy! Have you tried any business? You can decide to create employment. There is no law that forbids self-employment. For me is think remaining jobless in 2014 will be a personal idea.

Based on the many business ideas all over the internet and especially those shared in this website under the job creation button, i think no one should really cry loud enough about employment crisis. Okay, I am not priding but let’s be realistic here, have you tried;

1. A Tissue selling business?

Requirements and capital
-How basic: it has high demand, almost a basic need in each household
-Where to buy: cheap tissue vendors or wholesalers
-Capital needed: less than 5000/-
-Venue: anywhere as long as it is a discoverable place
-Security not very demanding
-Operating cost: very low, only rent and tax of 40/=(stop joblessness in 2014) 

2. Candle selling business?

Requirements and capital
-How basic: not basic but necessary in each house hold
-you can buy from wholesalers and supply
-capital: 490 for one box of
>which will give you gross profit of 660
>and net profit of 170/-per box
-venue: you can begin supplying from your our house
-securing not very demanding
-operating cost: reasonable, around 5000/- for 10 boxes
     >Which will give you gross profit of 6600/-
     >And net profit of 1600/- (don't remain jobless in 2014!)

3. Quail selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: it is becoming very essential
-Capital: Low -each bird costs less than 500/-
                    -needs very small space to keep
                    - Good returns
-security: not very demanding
-skills: basic and natural skills are enough
-expected profit: @ eggs is ksh35/-

4. Mutumba selling business? (Second hand clothes)
Requirements and capital
-How basic: basic people must wear outfits
-Capital: Low, ksh2000/- is enough
-Venue: Anywhere including open space with human traffic
-Security: not very demanding
-Manpower: not tiresome one person can ran it
-You only need an easy found location stop joblessness in 2014

5. CD selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: important in entertainment
-Capital required: 5000/- has a good stock
-Venues: High traffic zone,
             -does well in kiosk due to cost of rent
-Skill: basic know-how just for running a small business

6. Chips selling business?
Requirements and capital
-How basic: Not very basic but has high demand
-Capital required: approx khs30, 000/-
-Must have: health permit, and legal operating documents
-Venue: High traffic area,
-Manpower: involving but has good returns: stop joblessness in 2014

7. Ironing and dhobi business?
Requirements and capital
-Demand: Not basic but necessary
-Capital required: approximately ksh16000
                       -ksh1500 ($15) for iron box
                       -khs1000 ($10) rent for kiosk
                       -ksh40 ($3.8) tax revenue
                       -3000 ($30) for misc
-Venue: any reachable place, as long as you advertise
-Manpower: One person is enough don't remain jobless in 2014
-Yield best when there is not electricity and during holidays