Wednesday

How to Deal with Negative Minded People without being Negative

Life around negative minded people can be extremely challenging and more so when you don't know how to deal with them. The common traits of a negative minded individual include; ever feeling bored, always seeing impossibilities, easily controlled by situations, selfishness and overlay controlling.

Oops, hope you are not negative minded yourself, but if you find the above traits in your set of behaviors- then this is an opportunity for you to correct where necessary. However if not the following ideas can help out if you leave with individuals. One thing that is irresistible is the fact that we can't completely avoid these so called negative minded folks because they are our relatives, spouse, friends workmates or even neighbours.

The first and most important principle is to understand that these people have "behavioral problems". They are somewhat bound into seeing the negative side of life. Hence no matter what you do, it's a waste of time to try and expect any complement from them.

Another important aspect to note while around such folks is that they are used to being negative. Hence this is part of their lives, so, always accept what come out and put it aside. Don't spent your time waiting for them to change, cause they won't. Live your life and do what you must do. Don't allow the negative feeling control you cause you are not the actual problem. Do what you must do but never allow negative minded people to guide you cause they'll never show you anything good. 
 

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