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Understanding your Spouse : Marriage life Simplified

The greatest problem you'll ever encounter in marriage life is lack of understanding. Or in a more simpler term: not knowing the real person you call your spouse. Factually there is no shortcut to this as you ought to know the real "person" in your spouse if you are to stay happy together! Love alone is not enough. Know his or her character, and you can be sure of a successful marriage.

The greatest mistake you can ever do in marriage is thinking your spouse is an angel and he/she should not make mistakes. My, my, this is a common mindset to all of us. We assume they are not permitted to offend us just because we've given them our life. Okay, that should be literally the case but its not possible. Humans are bound to do mistakes and that's one point we must understand.

Here are a few things you should understand about your spouse in length;

#1. He/she is a companion in your life and not a rival.
#2. You'll only get back what you offer to your spouse.
#3. Both of you are meant for one another so you must create time for that.
#4. Your spouse is someone you can't live without but not someone to live with so can't afford to lose him/her.
#5. Communication is the only door to your partner's heart, -so speak up when necessary
#6. Words are extreme weapons so be careful when you are angry.
#7. Everybody has feelings so consider the feelings of one another.
#8. There is always an element of pride in everybody and this is the only thing that breeds strive.
#9. No one likes to surrender but it's the only way that leads to "am sorry"
#10. You'll never get a perfect match to live with, But only the one you can't live without.

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